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Sexual aids: Guide and selection tips
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Table of contents
- Why use sexual aids?
- Types and functions of sexual aids
- Choosing a vibrator: How to find the ideal model for you?
- Material quality and body-safe materials
- Sexual accessory cleaning and disinfection
- Recommended tools and first steps for beginners
- Sexual health and relationship benefits
- Discreet shopping and security
- Frequently asked questions
Last updated: October 2, 2026.
Why use sexual aids?
Sex aids aren't meant to "replace" anything - quite the opposite is true. These devices simply open up a new dimension of intimacy, whether you're using them alone or as a couple.
There is a strong connection between sexual health and sexual satisfaction. Research shows that people who are actively engaged in their sexuality – whether it’s learning about it, exploring it, or trying new things – tend to be happier and more confident in other areas of their lives. Sexual aids allow for this exploration, in a safe and more controlled way.
And in relationships, sex toys often open up new conversations. When a couple chooses a sex toy together, it's an intimate and bonding gesture in itself. Using the tools can extend the duration of sex, offer new stimulation options, and for many couples, increase the intensity of the experience.
Types and functions of sexual aids
Vibrators and clitoral stimulators
Vibrators are among the most sought-after sex aids – and for good reason. They’re simple, effective, and work for just about anyone. The vibration provides intense stimulation that, for many people, is essential to orgasm.
There are a huge variety of vibrators. There are small, discreet clitoral stimulators that are designed to be placed directly on the clitoris. These are usually smaller, more portable, and often waterproof. Then there are larger, more powerful vibrators that can reach multiple stimulation points or are designed for use with a partner.
One of the most important aspects is the intensity of the vibration. Many people think that stronger = better, but this is not true. Some people like gentle, continuous vibrations, while others like strong, intermittent rhythms. A good vibrator has several settings so you can find the ideal level. Wireless control, different pulsation modes, and sometimes even music synchronization are available on modern vibrator models.
Dildos and dildos
Dildos are different from vibrators in that they don't require electricity - stimulation is created through shape and movement. This feels more natural to many people and can be much more intimate when used by your partner.
Dildos come in a wide variety of sizes and shapes. Some are realistic in shape, while others are abstract in shape, optimized for stimulating completely different points. One of the most important considerations is size – and this should not be misunderstood. Bigger is not always better. For beginners, a smaller, simpler shape is usually recommended, which can be gradually increased.
The quality of the material is also critical here. Silicone is the safest and most practical material, as it is easy to clean, does not absorb any harmful substances, and has a long lifespan. Among the dildos, there are also special prostate massagers that are designed specifically to stimulate the male prostate - these are usually curved in shape to make it easier to reach the target.
Anal toys and prostate massagers
One of the most popular types of anal toys is the butt plug. It is a small, usually cone- or ball-shaped device that is inserted into the anal opening. The stimulation from a butt plug is quite different from that provided by other devices – the anal area is highly nerve-rich, so the sensations can be intense.
Prostate massagers are specifically designed for men. The prostate is an area that is considered „taboo” for many men, but it is actually extremely sensitive and capable of pleasurable stimulation. Prostate massagers are usually curved in shape, and the vibration function often helps with reaching. Men who try them often say that the intensity of their orgasms increases significantly.
Before using a butt plug or prostate massager, it's important to prepare properly. Always use lubricant and work up gradually. The anal area doesn't produce its own lubricant, so external help is essential. Start slowly and only progress when it feels comfortable.
Sex machines and automatic devices
Sex machines are the „luxury” category of sexual aids. These devices are fully automated and operate at different speeds and depths. Many models are adjustable, so you control how intense the experience is.
Sex machines are usually larger and more powerful than other devices. Some have vibration as well as movement, or can be operated from different angles. They are often the ideal choice for couples, as both partners can enjoy the experience, or one partner can stimulate the other while having fun themselves.
The advantage of automatic devices is that manual movement is not required – the device does it for you. This allows you to focus more on the sensations or stimulate yourself in other ways. Many people find that consistent, automatic movement leads to orgasm more easily.
Choosing a vibrator: How to find the ideal model for you?
Choosing a vibrator is a personal decision, but there are some things to consider. First, think about what you want to use it for – alone or with a partner?
Size and shape are another critical factor. If you've never used a vibrator before, start with a smaller, simpler model. It's much easier to upgrade to a larger one later than the other way around.
Don't compromise on material quality. Always choose silicone, glass, or metal – these are body-safe materials that won't harbor bacteria.
Power supply also matters. There are battery-operated vibrators, and there are cordless models (with a charging cable). Cordless vibrators are usually more powerful and last longer on a single charge. However, battery-operated models are often more portable.
Last but not least: wireless control. Some vibrators work with a remote control or even a phone app. This can be extremely interesting for couples, as one partner can control the device remotely.
Material quality and body-safe materials
The quality of materials used in sexual aids is not just a matter of comfort – it's a matter of health. The material used to make a sexual aid comes into direct contact with sensitive body parts, so it's extremely important that it's safe.
The best materials are silicone, glass, and metal. Silicone is the most popular because it is flexible, durable, and doesn't absorb bacteria.
Avoid unfamiliar materials, especially those that you don't know what they're made of. Some cheap sex toys contain phthalates or other dangerous chemicals that can cause long-term health problems.
If you have allergies or sensitivities to certain materials, it becomes even more important to choose the right one. Silicone allergies are rare, but they do exist – in these cases, glass or metal are a good option.
All products in the Szexshop Belváros range are made from body-safe materials. You will not find any device that contains dangerous chemicals – this is one of the basic principles of our selection.
Sexual accessory cleaning and disinfection
Careful cleaning of sexual aids is essential for health and product longevity.
Most sex toys can be cleaned with warm water and mild soap. Simply run them under warm water and rub them with your hands or a soft cloth.
Certain materials require special treatment. Glass and metal can be cleaned even better – they can even be sterilized with hot water.
If you want to disinfect even more thoroughly, you can use a disinfectant solution made for sexual equipment. These are specially formulated to not damage the material but are effective in removing bacteria.
Never put a sex toy in a washing machine or dryer. This can damage the electronic components and the material. After drying, store the toy in a clean, dry place.
Silicone sex toys should not be used with silicone-based lubricants – the lubricant can dissolve the material. Water-based lubricant use it instead.
Recommended tools and first steps for beginners
If you've never used a sex toy before, it's understandable to feel unsure. The first step is to get informed - and you've already done that by reading this guide.
One of the best choices for beginners is a simple, small vibrator. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it should be made of body-safe materials.
Size is also important. A beginner sex toy is usually smaller and thinner than more advanced models.
Read the manual carefully before using it for the first time. Yes, really. You need to know how the device works, how to charge or replace the batteries, and how to clean it.
Use a lubricant. This isn't optional—it's a must. Lubricant not only makes the experience more comfortable, but it also protects sensitive tissues. Choose a water-based lubricant, as it's compatible with almost all materials.
Last but not least: don't rush it. Your first time doesn't have to end in an orgasm right away.
Sexual health and relationship benefits
Using sexual aids isn't just about personal pleasure—it's also closely linked to sexual health and relationship satisfaction. People who are open to sexual exploration tend to be more aware of their own bodies and what works for them.
In a relationship, sexual aids often have a positive effect. Choosing and trying out a sexual aid together can be an intimate and even romantic gesture.
Intimacy deepens as couples explore new things together. Sex aids often extend foreplay, allow both partners to be stimulated at the same time, and for many couples, increase the intensity of orgasm.
And sexual health isn't just about orgasm. It includes self-confidence, body image, and intimate relationships.
Discreet shopping and security
We know that buying sexual aids is a sensitive topic for many people. That's why discretion and safety are of the utmost importance to us at Szexshop Belváros.
There's www.szexshopbelvaros.com . You can shop in complete safety through our webshop. The packaging is neutral and discreet – the postman or courier will not know what is inside.
Delivery is even faster in Budapest: the package can arrive within 1 hour via the Wolt app.
Payment is also secure and discreet. There are no online payment methods that reveal exactly what you are buying.
Never buy from unknown or untrusted sources. Cheap, unknown sex aids often contain dangerous substances and may not be sanitary. Price is not the only consideration – safety is much more important.
Sexual aids are not a secret, they are not taboo, and they are not „abnormal.” These devices simply give you the opportunity to get to know your body better and enrich your intimacy.
At Szexshop Belváros you will find the products you need, with complete discretion and fast delivery. The first step is to choose a device made of safe, body-safe material that is right for you.
Frequently asked questions
What material should you choose for a sexual accessory?
Among the body-safe materials, silicone, glass, and steel are the best choices because they don't contain toxic chemicals. Silicone is flexible, easy to clean, and long-lasting. Glass and steel are known for being cool to the touch and are also easy to disinfect. Avoid phthalates and vinyl materials, which can pose health risks.
How to clean and disinfect sexual aids?
After use, wash the device with lukewarm water and mild soap. For silicone, glass, and steel devices, you can use hot water or a disinfectant solution for a more thorough disinfection. Dry completely before storing and keep in a dry, dark place.
What sexual aids are recommended for beginners?
For beginners, we recommend smaller, ergonomically designed devices, such as simple vibrators or Geisha balls. Choose a product made of silicone, which is safe and easy to clean. Start with a lower intensity level and gradually work your way up. There are many beginner-friendly products and guides available.
Are sexual aids safe for health?
Yes, if you use tools made of body-safe materials and clean them properly. Silicone, glass, and steel do not usually cause allergic reactions or health problems. Always use a suitable lubricant and listen to your body's signals. If any pain or irritation occurs, stop using the tool and consult a doctor.